Friday, November 23, 2007

Facebook

I now have a presence on Facebook --so if you are a Ferguson Library person, please become my friend when you set yours up. So far I am friends with Marilee and Maura. That part is nice, but it seems that, once again, I have mixed feelings about a new technology. I can see how valuable this site is for high school/college age folks, in fact my son, who is now 24, has used facebook for years. But, it also seems like a bit of a harsh world to me, where everyone can see at a glance how many friends you have, and where people can overtly block you if they don't want to hear from you. Measuring popularity was much more subtle when I was that age. (is that good or bad??)

I also was only able to join one network, the geographic one. Because I am an alum, and I don't have an email account from any of my schools, I couldn't join any of their networks (I know, I can try to get an email account if I really want to). I also couldn't identify people I know who are on Facebook easily because my email accounts are not from one of the recognized providers and I don't have AIM friends, etc. There are things I can do to get around that, but they seemed too complicated to me. Besides, most of the folks I would find that way are my kids, my nephews and nieces and my friends' children. I'm not sure any of them would think it's cool to have me as a Facebook friend, and most likely none of them really want me to see what they are doing on Facebook in the first place.

These technologies are fascinating, but I have to admit, playing around them is making me feel old -- I am so not the target market for these things!

1 comment:

maura said...

i am glad we are facebook friends. having one or two people to experiment with makes for a good learning environment.

the new york times has run many articles recently about parents signing up for facebook and the reaction of their teenage children, "but MOM!"

linked in might be a social network best suited for adults. there are also a bunch coming out for the graying population as well, so there is definite interest in these tools for different populations. just might be a different product.